Motherhood didn’t improve my confidence. But it did force me to back myself more.
An honest reflection on motherhood, self-doubt, and learning to trust myself. This essay explores how becoming a mum didn't build my confidence - but forced a deeper kind of self-belief.
Buttery Chewy Oatmeal Raisin Cookies
Not a healthy, 'replace the sugar with dates' kinda recipe.
The Truth About ‘Be the Village’ When You Never Had One
Struggling to be a villager for other mums when no one was a villager for you? Same. Here's how I'm trying to drop the resentment and do for others what I wish was done for me.
Dump-and-Bake Creamy Chicken Rice
Chop stuff up, dump it in an oven dish, mix it around a bit and chuck it the oven until it's done.
Hey girl, I'm Jaz
I'm a tired Mum of two, a wife, a small business owner and SAHM. I'm also an awkward, sometimes oversharer who started my secret TikTok and Instagram account 'My Motherhood Confessions' to say all the things I felt I couldn't say out loud.
Welcome to our little corner of the internet where being a Mum isn't sunshine and rainbows and it isn't doom and gloom either - it's some weird place in between.
More blog entries
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The version Me Motherhood quietly replaced
The version Me Motherhood quietly replacedThe transition to mother was overnight after childbirth, but my grasp on the person I was before has been a slow, gradual drift - and I don’t know how to feel about it.
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The Good Stuff (blogs)
My latest thoughts, reflections, and pieces — written in real time, usually after everyone in my house is asleep.
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"Mum, what are you doing?"
Read Motherhood blog
The everyday chaos, the quiet wins, the guilt, the love, and the constant feeling that you’re somehow doing it wrong — even when you’re not. -
Mirror Mirror on the wall
Read Body Image blog
Bodies after babies. Comparison. Confidence. Grief for who you were — and learning to live in who you are now. -
Relationship Status: It's complicated
Read Relationship blog
Partners, friends, family, and the way motherhood quietly changes every dynamic — sometimes for better, sometimes not. -
The hard stuff
Read The Hard Stuff blog
Anxiety, loss, medical worries, burnout, and the thoughts that feel too heavy to say casually — but still deserve space.
Last Minute Dinner recipe
5 Easy Dinners I Make When I Have Zero Brain Capacity
Give the emergency roast chook, potato salad and bread rolls a rest and try these quick recipes when it's 5:45pm and dinner needs to be on the table by 6pm.
Bubba & toddler recipe
Broccoli bites
Soft, cheesy broccoli bites made with just a handful of simple ingredients. Perfect for babies learning to self-feed and toddlers who prefer their vegetables disguised.
Family meal recipe
Dump-and-Bake Creamy Chicken Rice
It's as easy as it sounds. Chop stuff up, dump it in an oven dish, mix it around a bit and chuck it the oven until it's done. Tastes amazing and minimal clean up dishes.
A piece for the new Mums, uncertain and trying to adjust to your new status, from the rest of us Mums. We see you and you're doing great.
Self checkout
Walking the super market isles, our own kiddos in tow, we see you
A little bit stressed, quite distracted and very aware
Aware of whether the newest little addition to your life is okay
If they’re settled
Even more, if they’re getting ready to set off
We know the feeling...